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1. Model what you expect and include them when you can.
2. Adjust to the seasons of the journey.
3. Learn the “Pace Principle.”
4. Ask lots of questions and listen to the answers.
5. Emphasize character formation (internal), not just cultural fads (external).
6. Refuse to criticize; reject negativity.
7. Write it down and pass it on. (journal)

No one is completely free of fear. Some fears are natural (running from a charging lion is a good idea). But when fear controls us, that is sinful.

Identifying Sinful Fear
1. What captivates my thoughts when I am tempted to fear?
2. In what ways do I allow fear to paralyze me and keep me from fulfilling my God-given responsibilities?
3. When I am tempted to succumb to sinful fear, what is my heart craving more than Christ? Am I seeking relief, escape, approval, acceptance, or comfort?
4. Are there ways I have sought to manipulate or control others (friends, spouse, children, and co-workers) because of my fears? In other words, are there payoffs I gain for nurturing my fears?
5. What am I believing about God when I’m afraid?

Fear expresses the opposite of all that Christianity is to be…Faith says, “Whatever it is, it’ll be okay b/c of God.” Fear says, “It’s not going to be okay,” and it doesn’t think much about God at all…Jer. 32:27 “Great is the Lord…Is anything too hard for Me?” Sometimes in life, we look at our need or the overwhelming circumstances and we feel beaten before we start. But God asks, “What exactly is it that you think I can’t handle?” To which we would have to reply, “Nothing is too hard for You, Lord.” — From “Always True” by James MacDonald

We are commanded to fear God, not man or our circumstances or what may come in the future (The Big Unknown). We trust and obey Him in difficult times because He is God, He is in control, and He knows the end from the beginning. The question is “What is going to control me—God or my fears?” You can’t serve two masters. Our answer is found in the gospel.
–The gospel assures us that it is safe to rest in Christ because He has demonstrated His love for us on the cross.
–The gospel tells us that God loves us so much that He would not withhold any good thing from us.
–The gospel tells us that God has promised to bring us safely to Himself.
–Our faith will not fail, even when we are walking through the valley of the shadow of death. We do not walk alone.
–The gospel reminds us that we cannot fix ourselves—that’s why Jesus had to die for us.

We need to repent or turn from everything we’re trusting in to save us from our fears and trust Christ’s rescue alone. We must stop trying to manipulate situations so that we need not feel afraid, and seek to discover God’s will in every circumstance.

You may still struggle with habitual responses that are wrong (running, seeking to control everyone/everything), but the power of sin has been broken in your life. The good news about habits is that in the same way that you learned bad ones, you can learn good ones to replace them. Where we once succumbed to sinful fear, we now put on the holy fear of God. Where we once focused on loving and protecting ourselves, we can now love and protect God’s reputation and name. And trust Him to protect us where we need to be protected.

Psalm 103 begins “Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me bless His holy name.” And then it lists several reasons why we ought to praise God. In the middle, it says 3 different times that God’s mercy is great “toward those who fear Him.” God pities those who fear Him. And that’s a good place to be.

Deuteronomy 31:8 “It is the LORD who goes before you. He will be with you; He will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” The reason we need not fear is b/c God has made this incredible promise to us—that He is always with us.

I hope you were all encouraged by reading the Scriptures and the thoughts from this month’s T2W meeting. Next month we will be meeting on October 8, in the Coffee Cove at 8 AM. We will be covering chapter 8 in Women Counseling Women, “Help for Overcoming Anger” If you have not joined us because you haven’t yet purchased the book, it is available on Amazon, and the structure of the book is topical, so you can join us anytime your schedule allows. Contact me if you have any questions!

Dianne
For the T2W team
dianne@saylorvillebaptist.com

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Retreat is $35 per person – Please prepay at the table in the coffee cove
Golf is $35 per person and includes 18 holes, cart and lunch. – Please prepay at the table in the coffee cove
Make checks payable to: Saylorville Baptist Church (for both the retreat and for golf)

Please bring your own bedding, pillow and towel. You can bring a tent to sleep in but the cost is still the same. There will be showers available to use and are covered in the retreat cost.
If you would like to stay in a hotel we have 10 rooms blocked off in Clear Lake for our retreat. Each room has 1 queen bed and is $65 plus tax. Please talk to Abe Miller if you are interested in staying in the hotel.

There will be a van leaving from Saylorville Baptist Church at 5 pm on Friday night. If you would like to ride in the van please sign up here:

Here is the schedule for the weekend:

Friday, September 16th
10:30 am Golf Tournament. 4 Man Best Ball. Shot gun start. Rice Lake Country Club. Cost $35. Includes box lunch, 18 holes, and a cart.
5:00 pm Flag Football Tournament
5:30 pm Pizza Feed starts and goes until 7:15 pm
(mini golf, frisbee golf, basketball, floor hockey, ping pong and carpet ball will all be available during this time)
7:30 pm Session 1: Todd Stiles
9:00 pm Man Time (Fun Stuff to Do)
Basketball, zipline, floor hockey, ping pong, etc
10:00 pm Snacks by Stu and Company!

Saturday, September 17th
7:30 am Breakfast by Stu and Company!
8:30 am Session 2: Todd Stiles
10:00 am Solo Time
10:30 am Session 3: Todd Stiles
11:15 am Testimonies
12:15 pm Retreat Ends

Directions To Rice Lake Golf and Country Club from Church

Directions to Iowa Regular Baptist Camp from Church

Directions to Camp from Rice Lake Golf and Country Club

Addresses for GPS:
Iowa Regular Baptist Camp – 1600 E Lake St. Ventura, IA 50482-5024, ph: 641-829-3824
Rice Lake Golf and Country Club – 43080 Golf Ave, Lake Mills, IA 50450, ph: (641) 592-8022

Chapter 3 starts with a discussion of the terms, “hermeneutics” and “genre”, which can have some of us saying, “Herman who and what?” The goal is not to impress or confuse anyone with theological terms; the goal is to clearly understand God’s Word, and ironically, that’s what hermeneutics means – the science of interpretation, with the goal of a clear understanding! In this case, we are talking about discerning what the Word of God means. 2 Timothy 2:15 says,

Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. (NASB)

That is our goal as believers – to be accurate in the way we handle God’s Word; we must not twist Scripture to try to make it say what we want to hear. In 2 Peter 1:20 we read,

knowing this first of all, that no prophecy of Scripture comes from someone’s own interpretation.

We live in a world of “here’s what I think it means,” or, “here’s what it means to me,” (note the emphasis on self) when the real question to be answered is, “What did the author mean?” This involves learning the Who, What, Where and When of the Scripture passage before we ever begin applying it to ourselves. When it comes to the Word of God, the intent of the Author is the thing we must seek to understand. That will involve work, study and prayer, but sometimes we just don’t know where to start. To help with this, we recommended two resources, Living by the Book, by Howie Hendricks, and an illustration from the book, Grasping God’s Word by Duvall and Hays. Thankfully, someone else found the illustration of a “principalizing bridge” helpful, and put it online (http://www.cornerstonebuzz.org/wp-content/uploads/pdf/journey-4-notes.pdf) The illustration points out the importance of getting the sense of the passage in its original setting before trying to bridge over into modern day life. If we don’t, we are liable to “read in” to the passage modern thinking rather than “draw out” the original meaning.

As we seek to properly understand the text of Scripture, it will involve the other word-of-the-week, “genre”. Genre is just a fancy French way of saying “kind or type.” In the Old Testament there are different types of literature – law, prophecy, wisdom, poetry, etc, and in the New Testament we have the gospels and letters, to name some of them. The key is to not confuse the types. For example, when we read in Psalm 98:8 “Let the rivers clap their hands, let the hills sing for joy together.” We understand that this is poetry, a figurative expression and not literal hand-clapping rivers or singing mountains. We also need to understand the historical setting of promises given, and to whom they were given, so that we are not pulling verses out of various places to make the Bible say what we want it to say.

We could spend weeks on this topic alone, but since we only had an hour and a half, we moved on to the topic of chapter 4, discernment. Our discernment (or understanding) as believers grows as we grow spiritually, and it is directly connected to our proper handling of the Word of God. The only way to get better at discerning truth from error is to spend a lot of time with truth! On page 52 the author says it this way: We learn to discern truth from error by constant and close study of the real thing, God’s Word.

Not only are we to know God’s Word, we are also to “test” what others say by the Word of God. Our author quotes 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22,“test everything; hold fast for what is good. Abstain from every form of evil,” and then says,

Believers are to examine what they think, hear, see, and do, and measure it all against what God’s Word says. What you think of and understand about God (that is, your theology) will always drive your responses to everything in life. (p. 57)

As we learn what God says in His Word, and begin to discern truth from error in the world in which we live, the outcome should be living out what we know to be true. This always brings us back to the gospel and the grace of God, because we cannot live the Christian life apart from the Savior who loved us and gave Himself for us. So, don’t despair – sanctification is an ongoing process, and God is at work making us more like His Son (Romans 8:29).

Our next meeting is August 13. I will spend just a few minutes talking about chapter 5 (Women’s Ministry) and then Karen Anderson will join in to discuss the topic of dealing with your emotions (chapter 6). This is an issue we all need to approach from a biblical point of view, and we hope to see you then!

Dianne
For the T2W team

Though it was a little early for some of us, coffee was provided and no one fell asleep. In fact, all caffeine aside, I was encouraged by the fact there was discussion (not “discussion leader speaks, then waits in uncomfortable silence while crickets chirp and everyone stares at her”). Thanks for that!

As most of you know, the plan is to meet once a month (2nd Saturday) to discuss a couple of chapters, and this week we logically started with chapters 1 and 2. We opened by asking, “what did you find most challenging, interesting, or surprising in our reading?” It was not surprising that more than one woman mentioned the statement on page 16, “. . .don’t be confused. The Bible is not a self-help book. Written on every page is this truth: we cannot help ourselves.” Since bookstores (secular and Christian) are drowning in self-help books, CD’s and DVD’s, this is a bold statement. Later in the same chapter, this thought was reinforced:

We don’t need self-help; we can’t use it. We need Other-help. We need a Savior. . . The Bible teaches that it is the gospel of Jesus Christ-the good news about what He’s already done for us-that transforms our lives. (p. 21)

That truth – the gospel is not about what we do, but about what Christ has already done – has transformed my thinking over the past few years, and I don’t think I’m alone. The problem that we often have is connecting this gospel truth to the way we live our daily lives, and that will be the focus of our time together each month – connecting the gospel to our lives, specifically as women.

When Elyse came to speak for Faith Lift a few years ago, she was in the midst of writing the book, Because He Loves Me. In the introduction she talks about how we as believers move beyond the gospel, not because we don’t value it, but “we don’t really understand how God’s love to us in the gospel applies to us practically, here on this side of Calvary, “ and then she asks the question, “In your pursuit of holiness, have you left Jesus behind?”
Chapter 1 reinforces what our pastors regularly preach – we never move beyond the gospel.

Chapter 2, Do God’s Promised Apply to You? is a discussion of the assurance of salvation, and more than one woman cited her appreciation of the quote on pages 29-30, which ends with the statement, “He assures us not by giving us confidence in ourselves, but by bringing us to the end of ourselves, so that we might know and love him.”

Again we are faced with biblical truth that seems upside down and backwards to a world living by the slogans, “Believe in yourself!” or, “You are worthy!” The freeing truth is that I am not nor will I ever be worthy, but Christ is, and His righteousness covers me.

So, when we discussed the indicators of our identity in Christ at the end of chapter 2, we reminded the overly introspective among us that sanctification is a process, and it doesn’t happen overnight. That should remind us not to excuse our sin, but to run boldly to the throne of grace to receive mercy and grace in time of need (Hebrews 4:12-16).

We want to encourage you to keep reading this book, but not in place of the Word of God. In fact, we want to be like the believers in Berea, who “searched the Scriptures daily to see if those things a were true.” (Acts 17:11)

The last 20 minutes of our time together was spent in prayer for those in need in our church family, for our pastors and for various ministries in the church. Let’s continue to hold each other up in prayer during the month.

The next meeting is set for July 9, at 8 am in the Coffee Cove. We will be discussing chapters 3 & 4, so keep reading and come ready to listen and to share.

In Christ Alone,
Dianne for the T2W Team

Why are we switching programs?
This new program was designed to correlate with the lessons the children learn each week through the Generations of Grace curriculum. Each verse (chosen by the pastors and Shine team) emphasizes what the children should know, feel or do as a result of the lesson. This was something that was lacking with the Kids 4 Truth program. It also allows everyone (child, parent and teacher) to focus on the same verse at the same time!

The new program launched Sunday, January 9th during Shine. Each Sunday a new Bible verse will be introduced and can be quoted the following week. Throughout the week we encourage parents to work on these verses as a family with the table stand (one per family) and the flash cards (one per child) we sent home. The flash cards are for the children to use individually AND to bring with them when they say their verse. The table stand is designed to be placed in a visible location in the home (i.e. the kitchen table) to work on as a family. Each card includes the Bible verse as well as the lesson title and passage so they can refer back to what was learned in Shine. We encourage not only to be learning the verses but to process through what the child learned from the lesson.

This program is a work in progress! It’s our goal to continue to develop this program as time goes on. We welcome your feedback! Ladies from the Shine team (Lisa Bakke, Alice Bear, Donna Larson, Liz Nemmers and Lisa Pedersen) will be available on Sunday nights before Shine and after modules to answer any questions.

Looking forward to seeing what God’s going to do through this new program!

A big thank you to everyone who volunteered their time last week for Wee Ones. Thank you to everyone who helped the week leading up to the even with move in, cleaning, sorting, and folding. Because of all your help we finished preparations early! And thank you to many volunteers that helped make the day of the event possible. We couldn’t have done it without everyone’s help. Please continue to pray for the seeds that were planted.

1:28 College and Career Singles are going through Idols of the Heart lead by Mark Vance. 1:28 gets started each week at 5:00pm with a great free meal in the Coffee Cove. Check back here for audio recordings from each class and other resources such as books, class handouts and PowerPoints.

Taught by Pastor of Evangelism, Chuck De Cleene. This modules starts March 14th and will be held in the Coffee Cove on Sunday nights at 5:30. Check back here for resources such as books, class handouts and PowerPoints.

This modules starts March 14th and will be held in the Main Auditorium on Sunday nights at 5:30. Check back here for resources such as books, class handouts and PowerPoints.